Have you ever been in a relationship and then cheated and got yourself a mistress or boy toy. Was it worth the experience and did you have a great time?
No, I have never cheated on someone.. I already know it wouldn't be worth it and I respect myself and others too much to even entertain the idea.
What a weird thread. No never done something of the sort. Nor do I intend to. Not that I have major moral issues with it, its just that it seems like more trouble than its worth.
Regardless of people's feelings, it is relatively simple to give the person you are with the opportunity to stay or go when you are making decisions of this nature. I do not subscribe to the It's Complicated magazine. It really isn't. I no longer have an interest in solely you. It will be uncomfortable. It will be emotional. There is usually consequence but there is no reason to lie and hide. You want a mistress or a boy toy? Go get one. I don't see cheating as something that inherently comes with that.
